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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
That’s interesting to me. I tend to think of people being drawn to each other, like a dynamic between them if that makes sense. Certainly deeper connections are an interplay between two in my experiences. So if you’re finding that you aren’t drawn to selfish people but that they’re drawn to you do you feel like you would benefit from being a person who makes more of an active choice in who you spend time with?
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This is a good point. I think if one finds that selfish people just gravitate towards them, it might be wise to not pursue friendships with them and cut it off as soon as it’s obvious they are selfish. But I’d also be careful how we define selfishness and we mean by that