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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
Of course. each one of us, try our best and have our background in what social stuff regards. It’s not easy.
Try our best but mistakes are inevitable.
Then, models of communication viewed as we were kids are also there.
And cognitive distortions play also a big role.
I have been learning how to relate to people for my last 30 years and I needed psychologists to realise and process each social interaction and I learnt the hard work have to be done by yourself.
I have a book. I’m gonna give it a review, btw, about social skills. It was highly helpful for me. As a great discovering.
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Good for you. Therapy never did me any good at all. I wasted thousands of dollars for nothing.
I’m probably a lost cause. I’m certain that I’m going to give up on even trying to talk to people anymore 100%. Maybe even online too.
I’m a failure & most people obviously dislike me & think that I’m weird, crazy & stupid.
The only people who are interested in associating with me are usually selfish user types who only seem to want someone to use as a free therapist, ugh!
I’m not likeable & most people just don’t like me period no matter what I do or don’t do. Even on here people think I’m stupid & weird.
I give up, this is way to hard I’m sick of ‘working’ not getting paid for anything.