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Old Aug 14, 2023, 02:51 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Do you forget all the bad stuff when you see him? I think it doesn’t help that you keep correspondence in some fashion and continue attending same places. It’s much more difficult to get over when you need to continue talking and seeing each other. But in your situation you do not need it at all, so I hope you go no contact and also take long break from these concerts. It will get better. Give it time
No, I do not forget the bad stuff at all. I cannot help how I respond when I see him. I am not replying to his last email and am going no contact. I don't have any other big concerts lined up, as I mentioned.

If I were not having a rough go of it out in the world on my own, perhaps I wouldn't be having this nostalgia.
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