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Old Aug 14, 2023, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Discombobulated View Post
I certainly don’t see you in that way. But I wonder who called you those things growing up because it’s often an echo of our past when we feel those things about ourselves. I speak from experience here.

I agree with Azul. If people thought you were weird or stupid why would they confide in you? Most people have to feel a bond or a rapport with someone to open up to them.

I also agree if people don’t respect our boundaries (or we don’t make them clear) it can be exhausting.
I have told myself these same things so many times.
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