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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Nothing you can do to change the toxic bully type person you are describing. People like this play games to get a reaction. They consider any reactions a win and a good “feed”.
When your contract is up you can write a higher up and share what you observed.
Always remember these behaviors reflect a person who is a nothing and doesn’t feel they exist until they get another person to react. Neglected toddler behavior or even a toddler jealous when a younger sibling is born and suddenly they are no longer the center of attention. This can lead to these teasing games to get the younger sibling to complain and annoy the parent. The older sibling then plays the victim to regain attention and favor.
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Thank you for responding to my post. I feel better having read it.
I agree with your perceptive toddler analogy. He is definitely projecting his own "issues" onto me like a neglected child jealous that the tenants are excited to have someone at the front desk again (I guess it's been about 5 years with no front desk person).
That tenant still never received his reprogrammed fob/key today b/c the property manager wouldn't let me make the copy (I'm just a temp).
That kitten belonged to a tenant who leaves her door open when she and her boyfriend use weed (which is legal now to do in my state) and are so high, they don't know up front down/right from left. She came asking for the kitten two hours after I brought it home.
I found out she had a second kitten and when I went into her apt (invited), it was a hoarding situation. So, I asked her if she and her boyfriend would let me adopt their kittens for $125 and they agreed. So, now I have 2 kittens in my apt.
The nonprofit manager said she'd recommend me for one of the jobs that her nonprofit is hiring for. I forgot to write down her colleague's name but I did print out my resume and gave it to her before I left for the day. My hope is to see her tomorrow, and ask her for her colleague's name so I can add that to a cover letter before I fill out my online application.
I'm tired of failing life's tests though...I posted about it in another thread. I get my hopes up, just to be rejected again. Or lied to. Or manipulated because I have the bandwith of the Midwestern trope, Rose Nylun from The Golden Girls. I am so easy to manipulate. Like, I can see it happening and I don't stop it despite having the knowledge of how to stop it (not react). And even when I don't react, I get clobbered.