You need a purpose, a goal. Even a small one. Without a job or a reason to get out of bed, you don't keep to a schedule. What about volunteering? Or having a pet that you have to walk for an hour twice a day. Something that relies on you. And yes, family is the worst in my opinion to go to about depression. I've had that reaction myself. Just snap out of it. Only people who live with depression know what it's like. Is there groups in your area you could join? You need the right kind of company, the right kinds of friends. It's not easy. I've lost a lifetime friend, she just doesn't respond. It hurts, but that's not a friend anymore. I actually am a woman who has more male friends (and I mean friends not hook ups) than women friends. I guess I have one friend who is a woman but even she hasn't responded to one kind text. I wish you the best