That’s common behavior for rock stars on stage. No that is not assault.
But the many, many post you start in this vine are beginning to sound as if you relish the idea of being a victim. You weren’t. In fact the many many post are beginning to make me think you are humble bragging. Look at me, look what I did, how cool I was, and I’m a victim. You always ask why but these things are far in the past and there is no answering why other people do what they do. The question you should be asking is why am I hanging on to this. What is my need to get others to call me a victim.