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Originally Posted by divine1966
I don’t think it’s assault case. I doubt police would get involved. Maybe they’d advice you to move away from the stage if you feel uncomfortable
Just some ideas:
Thrusting one’s groin in that way is a common gesture for many performers
You stood very close to the stage, had a crush on him and liked his attention (it was likely noticeable) so he possibly thought you like this kind of stuff. You even tried to see them before the performance.
You were intoxicated, he was likely as well. Other people were drunk or/and high so what they said or didn’t say is irrelevant as they were not sober
You keep saying you rejected him. In which way? Did he ask you anything or even spoke to you? You never moved away no matter how badly he behaved so I don’t see you rejecting him at all. You said you refused to hang out with him in private. Did he ask to see you in private or you just think he did?
I don’t know why he sprayed water on you. It’s crazy. But I am puzzled why you still stood there?
You can never answer why people do this or that because you’ll never know but some performers love bizarre behaviors and think that fans like it (and many do, your actions showed him that you liked it so he kept on acting ridiculous).
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I’ve been to lots of concerts & I have never had any performer thrust their groin out at me ever. What you said does make sense.
I said that maybe he felt like I rejected him as my jaw dropped in shock when that happened.
I think that he went back onstage at the end of the show to invite me backstage. Or he was trying to
offer me a bottle of water. I think. I’m not sure of any of that.
Like I said, I froze & I wasn’t able to focus on how he looked or what he did. All I recall is that he crouched down in front of me & splashed water on my face. It was a few drops from a bottle.
I then gave him a dirty look & he left. Why would he splash water on my face?
A guy told me that he was making it obvious with the groin thrust that he wanted a blow job. Idk if that’s the case or not.
So when he saw that I wasn’t going anywhere with him, maybe he got pissed & decided to get his petty revenge on me for ‘teasing’ him unintentionally. I could’ve moved, but I didn’t think of that then.
I was only there to enjoy the show & that’s it. I probably gave him the wrong impression when I didn’t move after he thrust his groin at me.
I just looked up instead to avoid being at eye level with his groin area. He cocerved me into looking up. I wasn’t thinking as I was anxious & kind of drunk too. I kind of froze.
I don’t go out alone at night anymore btw.