You haven’t even seen the most iconic figures doing that? Haven’t seen footage of girls screaming every time Elvis Presley does some lower body moves? Michael Jackson? Many rappers/hip hop singers literally hold their privates making these moves. You can’t be serious.

Just because you haven’t had something happened to you before it doesn’t mean that’s not what many performers do. Also maybe you weren’t right there by the stage other times

You can’t really figure strangers out because you don’t know them plus what purpose does it serve? It’s not like this person is in your life.

Plus in order for it to be analytical there has to be evidence of whatever you think happened. There’s zero evidence of anything you assumed about the guy. Him wanting private time with you, wanting you back stage, him feeling rejected by you etc

. It’s not analysis but some type of assumption not based on reality. I really hope you start your therapy soon. Id address why you still think of it years later and why you assign motives to people and create these scenarios and stories with no evidence.