So we decided moving is nessicary for our happiness. I need to be able to function by myself but that means getting accommodations from HUD. The apartment I want is not in the city but we may have to give up our car. Meaning living at home would be easier but going for errands and appointments not as much. I want to live on a campus. They want the city. I think it was the fact my day was made because I actually managed to cook an egg and eat it by myself with no help in my kitchen for the first time since we moved in. I don't want to give up the car but I have to realize I can't have everything. Cars cost money here and we just don't have enough. I hate moving again when it's not our ' forever home ' but with me not being comfortable, dh on garbage duty for the whole apartment, Miguel backsliding into behaviors we need help our current system isn't providing. It really shouldn't be like this but it's.