You start threads asking Why? We all gave you reasons we thought were why. I thought that’s what you wanted to understand. It seemed like you were seeing situations very differently than the rest of us do.

It’s all conjecture anyway, because we don’t know what was in his mind as to why he did whatever he did and what it meant. By the details you gave, we were able to connect the dots to draw a conclusion. I thought this may be helpful to you, as you seem to be struggling with communication, and asking for support for that.

I’d have felt embarrassed and humiliated, too. It’s just that “assaulted” means something more severe, so we got into discussion about our thoughts on you calling it that.