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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
You start threads asking Why? We all gave you reasons we thought were why. I thought that’s what you wanted to understand. It seemed like you were seeing situations very differently than the rest of us do.
It’s all conjecture anyway, because we don’t know what was in his mind as to why he did whatever he did and what it meant. By the details you gave, we were able to connect the dots to draw a conclusion. I thought this may be helpful to you, as you seem to be struggling with communication, and asking for support for that.
I’d have felt embarrassed and humiliated, too. It’s just that “assaulted” means something more severe, so we got into discussion about our thoughts on you calling it that.
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Yes, I saw this situation differently. I did not see it as being a normal part of the show or comical at all.
I understand that other people didn’t take what happened to me as seriously. They weren’t there though. It was scary. He was intimidating.
I got the feeling that he was trying to upset or provoke me for whatever reason. I naturally assumed that he was showing sexual interest in me as I assuned that his groin thrust was a crude way of ‘flirting’ with me. I’m probably wrong about that now.
To single out a woman by herself at a show just for laughs or whatever is sick & disgusting bullying behavior IMHO.
I doubt that anyone here would like having that done to them. I doubt that things would be comical if that actually happened to them.
I was expecting people to be more empathetic & sympathetic, but no, I just ended up getting unfairly criticized & judged by some people again which is upsetting.
I have anxiety issues & that whole incident scared me so much that I froze up. I didn’t react to what was hoing on quickly enough or rationally enough to get away in time. Given my history with numerous assaults, it was triggering.
I know if anything like that ever happens again, that I’ll move. As for the communication issues, I misunderstood a few people.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that I’m on the spectrum or don’t know how to communicate or have common issues.
People on here are becoming increasingly judgemental & hostile & that’s sad.