How do I allow him full, but temporary custody of my daughter, with the legal provision that he is NOT under any circumstances to leave the country, even if we end up in Yuma Arizona and gas is $1.00 in Mexico, he would have to send a guard over to buy the gas for him!!

How do I give him power of attorney over my bank accounts while I'm gone so he can pay the bills....but not lose everything I have?

How do I do the life insurance so it all goes to my daughter, not him?

Can I ask for a permanent, lifetime suicide exclusion on life insurance, including assisted suicide (which is legal in Oregon now), for the rest of my life? Will that reduce my rates, since I am "morbidly obese" and diagnosed?

How do I ask my sister to come and pack up all my things for me, and how should she do it, and who should be watching, and where should she put it all!!

I have more questions, but it is 11:48 PM and I need to leave in the morning to start a very long drive to Arizona in the summer. I am prone to heat stroke. Yikes. But this will save my life, and they do have air conditioning and 24/7 medical staff, so I will be okay once I get inside that door.

Thank you.

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