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nonightowl · Aug 19, 2023 at 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Have Hope

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However my issue is not being discerning enough with people and I end up befriending toxic people. So my issue is discernment and boundaries. And honestly I felt this woman crossed my boundaries by being so pushy when I said I couldn’t walk at certain times. So I revert back to my original stance that this is not one I wish to befriend. Thank you both however for your ideas and input.

I can understand that.

Same here. A pushy person isn't respectful of others; I wouldn't put up with that. I'm on your side here. This woman doesn't sound like someone I'd want either. Feline Angel is right in saying it's best to find out early if someone is flaky, and I trust my gut. This way I don't waste both time and an emotional investment in someone. Neither of those can be recovered.