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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
You are making it black and white. Nobody said you deserved it. Nobody said it was entirely your fault. You are jumping to these thoughts.
You are saying you now will never go near another famous person. Again, this is very black and white thinking (all or nothing). Surely, you don’t think any experience with another famous person will be just like this one was? There was nothing wrong about the fact that you had an interaction with a famous person.
You keep saying it was not normal. Well, it wasn’t completely out of character for him to do. You mentioned another woman told you he also threw water at her. It sounds like this kind of demeanor was part of his act.
If you told me Neil Diamond did it, I’d agree it’s not normal. What could have gotten into him? Lol. But this act must have been this type of show where he was being raunchy.
Nobody’s invalidating your experience either. It was upsetting for you and you are trying to process and heal. We just got into a discussion about it not being an “assault”. It was upsetting and gross. We all feel for you and are glad you are alright.
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All good points. Also because something happens a lot it doesn’t mean it’s acceptable. When we say it happens a lot with these types of bands, we aren’t saying it’s ok. We are just saying it happens, sadly.
And yes not all famous people act this way.
And of course it’s not Jesyka’s fault he was being a jerk but people can’t control other peoples behaviors so all we could do is to focus on how to avoid these situations.