Your session becomes the space. A T agrees to commit to that session, same hour same days. Even if youre not there it's your session, and/or my T held that time for me. How I used it was up to me. Is If ghosted her that was how I was choosing to use that space.. Beingg as it's a long term commitment it's holds more value to both. When I was on holiday T still thought about and held onto that space we shared together ...I could email or phone in that space still. My paying for that hour was my commitment...therapy isn't just about being there or not.