No comment on the original poster's incident. What happened, happened. There's no going back. Only those that were there know their own intentions.

What I will address are a lot of other posters saying this kind of behavior from "rock stars" is "normal" or "expected. I think some of that is true.... to a degree, depending on the act. I just want to separate those "rock stars" to REAL rock stars.

I have posted before how AC/DC and Rush are my two favorite bands. They are wildly popular and successful and I have seen both in concert many times. Not once did I ever see Brian Johnson or Geddy Lee resort to such childish tactics to swoon the ladies. Why? They don't need to (plus they're both happily married). They make / made their living by using their actual talent and that's why they sold out arenas, stadiums, and venues for decades. I could go on forever about how great those two bands are but I'd break the Internet nor do I want to hijack the discussion.

My point is is if you go to a performance and the singer / band member, etc. does these corny moves, ask for refund because you're seeing a bunch of talentless clowns.