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Old Aug 20, 2023, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
My daughter had posters of Kurt Cobain and David Bowie on the walls and one on the ceiling. Ha She also had t shirts with Bowie stuff on it. Most of his stuff she bought at his concert that she was lucky to attend thanks to her mom LOL

I dated this one guy who saw her posters and said i shouldn’t allow her to have Cobains stuff because he is bad role model for teenage girls. What a jerk. She didn’t have his poster because he was her role model!

I don’t know if it’s always a crush either, crush implies that it’s romantic, sometimes it’s just something else, like just being a big fan. But yes it’s somewhat developmental. Very common amongst teenagers to be totally fascinated and often enamored with celebrities, especially actors and musicians.
I like Kurt Cobain & David Bowie too. You took your
daughter to concerts? Wow, you’re a cool mom!

Some people are pretty judgemental. Kurt wasn’t a bad role model. He actually had respect for women & gay people. He was a troubled guy, but not a jerk it seems like.

As for crushes, adults can get & do have them on musicians. I don’t understand why some people are acting like this is unusual for me to have one as an adult.