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Old Aug 20, 2023, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted by jesyka View Post
I like Kurt Cobain & David Bowie too. You took your
daughter to concerts? Wow, you’re a cool mom!

Some people are pretty judgemental. Kurt wasn’t a bad role model. He actually had respect for women & gay people. He was a troubled guy, but not a jerk it seems like.

As for crushes, adults can get & do have them on musicians. I don’t understand why some people are acting like this is unusual for me to have one as an adult.
When David Bowie was performing in my city I bought her a ticket and she went with a girlfriend. I think it was a birthday gift from me because it was awfully expensive. It was in 2004.

Oh yeah that guy meant he wasn’t a good role model because Cobain did drugs. Just because a teen listening to music of someone who did drugs, which is sadly many do in music industry, it doesn’t mean they are going to start drugs too. That guy was a weirdo. I stoped dating him shortly after

I don’t think it’s unusual to be a fan of a particular artist. Maybe actual crushes is something more like young people thing. I have a friend/coworker who’ve been to probably every single concert of Bon Jovi. Huge fan. She used to travel to concerts all over the US anywhere he performed. I didn’t think it’s weird.

I think being a huge fan is perfectly fine but maybe just the way you went about it is a bit unusual for an adult woman.
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