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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am very sorry your mom didn’t do nice things. I am sure it effected you in many ways. I am far from perfect but not doing nice things for kids (within financial limits) is extreme. Very sorry
I think there is a difference between being a fan and having actual crush. I can’t imagine acting like I have a crush on a rock musician plus I’d be probably scared to run into people I know lol I’d not want people to see me intoxicated on pills and alcohol and trying to talk to a musician and being mistaken for a prostitute. I think at some point we are too old for that. Plus nowadays everyone ends up being filmed and on you tube or social media. And it’s forever there. I don’t censor myself in what I do in my free time but there are some limitations.
I don’t care what kind of fascination I have with rock star (if I had one) it’s not worth it for me. My friend who’s obsessed with Bon Jovi is just going to concerts. Not doing anything risky. That’s why I thought it’s unusual the way you go about it.
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Her behavior has affected me negatively. And her constant fat shaming even when I was thin.
She still buys whatever my bratty sister wants usually though. Obviously she played favorites.
So, do you think that it’s weird for people to approach a musician for an autograph? Because that was my intent. As I said, lots of fans do that. They go to meet & greets before shows sometimes too.
I doubt that I was the only person there who was tipsy. A lot of people drink at clubs.
I was also NOT dressed like a prostitute. That roadie guy was rude. He was on an obvious power trip by telling me that I wouldn’t be able to get inside for no particular resson
If I truly did anything wrong, then I obviously wouldn’t have gotten inside
This occurred in 2000 or in the early part of 2000 so no one had sn camera phones bsck then thankfully. I wouldn’t want to end up on youtube or whatever either.
It should be illegal & not possible on YouTube or anywhere else to post up videos of anyone who never consented to being filmed.
I’m getting the bad impression that people on here now think that I’m crazy & that I’m some crazed groupie slut, lol.
Didn’t musicians like like Elvis have lots of adult female admirers who had a crush on him? I’m sure that plenty of musicians have admiring adult female fans too. It’s normal. Don’t adults get crushes too? As I said, I didn’t just stand there & stare at him, lol.
I did not intentionally do anything to flirt with the singer. I was coerced into looking up at him.
I froze like I said. I was just there to enjoy the show, that’s it. Trying to ask for an apology later was obviously a mistake.
And it’s actually normal for adult women to get crushes. I just read a bunch of articles about it. It’s not just a silly teenager thing.
What Age is Too Old to Have a Crush? | Outlish Magazine
A few of my older friends like to talk about actors we like & find attractive. Theres nothing wrong about that, lol.