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Old Aug 20, 2023, 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam View Post
My SS card is in a safety deposit box at a Wells Fargo bank branch. Jesyka's husband's SS card can easily be in a safety deposit box, too, and she would not even know about the existence/location of that box, much less have a key.

With retirement savings, yes, most definitely, @jesyka should know about them and how much money is in them. What you are suggesting @divine1966 would change the dynamic of the marriage, establish @jesyka's valid claim as an equal member of the couple union. Maybe the student therapist can help guide in doing that.
I think my student therapist will be available in a month from now. Hopefully I’ll be able to get a good one to help me out with things.
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