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Old Aug 21, 2023, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam View Post
That was what I was trying to said, that he made wrong assumptions but that those assumptions were not crazy. He did not act irrationally. I am glad you are able to see how that he could have made assumptions about you that were not true. People do that all the time. On this thread, you made assumptions that people thought that you were a groupie and nobody made those assumptions. Moreover, to think that people made those assumptions was illogical, since had you been a real groupie, you would not have opened this thread in the first place.

When I asked about moving to the back, I did not mean after the vulgar gesture. I meant before. When you found yourself staring at his crotch and feeling uncomforable about that, before you froze, why did not you move back at that time?

It was nice and kind and caring of you not wanting to insult actual groupies. I hope you see now that since there were actual groupies next to you, those whom you did not want to insult, that very easily could the rock star have mistaken you for such a groupie, in their midst.

Even if you froze due to anxiety, I still do not see how anyone could have coerced you. Coerced, like bullying, like assault, is a very strong term. Walk me through how you believe you were coerced. Who did it? When? How? In what ways?
Thanks. Cocered isn’t the right term then maybe. He definitely put me in an awkward position.

I felt like I was being tested or toyed with. Like I said, I froze. I don’t understand why people on here can’t understand why I couldn’t just move. Have none of you ever froze before?