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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
It was just your typical sex, drugs, & rock and roll. I also stayed out of mosh pits to not get hurt. There would be drunk, aggressive idiots sometimes pushing, grabbing. There would be a lot of sex and drug activity allowed without security stopping. But these were good times for me, really fun and thankfully harmless. I made efforts to keep myself safe, and didn’t handicap myself to be extra vulnerable to predators.
You have shown a pattern in your posts of you doing that to yourself, saying you have social anxiety and this is how you are trying to cope with it.
It’s clear you aren’t receptive to any comments made. It seems like you just want to hear us say what your friends you told about this said, just validating you, agreeing with you. I’m not sure why you posted. I do hope some part of this was helpful though.
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I’m glad to hear that you had fun at those shows. Snd it’s good that you take safety precautions too.
I have stayed away from the pit too. I have always stayed way off to the side as well. Things can still get crazy.
What other precautions do you take to stay safe? I’d appreciate some tips that might be able to help me stay safe at shows.
Although I have anxiety, I still enjoy going to shows. I didn’t completely disagree with other people. I misunderstood what some people said. I stated that a few times & apologized for that.
What I’m upset about is having people call me delusional for making the wrong assumptions about his actions. I was there btw, so only I know what really happened too.
Instead of callimg me delusional, it’d be nicer to say thst I made the wrong assumptions, but to call me delusional is rude, disrespectful & insulting.
I’m receptive to comments, I’m just not receptive to being disrespected. I never expected anyone to agree with me. I simply didn’t understand or completely agree with some people about certain things.
Example, this kind of behavior is normal. No, it is not normal, I’ve been to lots of shows in the past & this is the only time I’ve had had something like this happen to me.
Also, I have not heard about this happening to other people as well anywhere. People kept trying to convince me that it is normal for some reason.
I simply disagreed with them. I’m entitled to my personal opinion too. Disagreeing with why he did this doesn’t make me delusional.
I already stated that I’m not entirely sure why he did that either. I didn’t state things as facts. Some people clearly misunderstood me. Only he knows why he did the things he did. None of us, myself included will ever know the truth for sure.
I was just trying to get answers. And I was judged by a few people on here which is upsetting to me. I didn’t do anything wrong. I just failefd to react to the situation by moving away.
Just because I misunderstood or disagred with other people about things doesn’t mean that I’m delusional or not taking their comments seriously. What am I supposed to do, say that they’re right about everything? Or agree with everything they told me?
I can’t help it if I froze. Did no one on here ever freeze in up before? I don’t understand why everyone expected me to just move like it was that simple.