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Old Aug 21, 2023, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Yes I felt frozen before and didn’t immediately reacted but no one forced you stay there. He couldn’t predict that

Yes his behavior would make people feel awkward and uncomfortable but it doesn’t mean he wanted something with you backstage. I wonder if there is a reason you insist he wanted private time and you rejected him? Why do you insist that is what happened with no evidence?
Idk why I stayed there. I froze like I said. People don’t act logically st times when the flight, fight or freeze system kicks in.

We’re all wired to react differently that way. Some people fight, some flee, some freeze. Obviously I froze.

I thought I already stated that I probably made the wrong assumptions. I didn’t keep insisting that he wanted me to go backstage with him anymore.

I thought that was the case at first, but it’s not. And everything else was a wrong assumption too probably.