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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam
I think the most helpful thing that can come out of this thread for you @ jesyka is noticing your reactions, which are happening in the here and now and not in 2000 while under the influence, right here to us on the thread. For instance, you thought that people considered you a slut and a groupie. You thought that someone called you delusional. Yet, these things did not happen. So this is how you imagination works and then you believe that other people treat you very badly. I believe this explains many of your posts. Not only do you think that in 2000 the rock star was vengeful, and he most likely wasn't but you cannot ask him, but right now you thought that you were considered delusional and a slut. And here on the thread you can verify whether what you believe is true. You can go up the thread and see if you can find written evidence. You can ask people whether they indeed believe what you are ascribing and attributing to them. You can reality check, right here. And hopefully this will lead to some learnings which you can then apply IRL. |
I mentioned having misunderstood a few people on here, sorry once agaiin. I’ll try to forget about this & learn from my mistakes.
I still want to go out, so I’m overthinking things now on how to avoid being targeted again. A friend & I nhave ticketscto see two different bands in October. We’re going to a club next month too.
Her & I have only had one issue with some weird lady who tried to stop me from taking pics of this band one time. I told her to stop touching me & to get out of my fave or I’d have security kick her out.
She then went to talk to my friend & said something about the flash & helping me. I didn’t see any signs up. Weird! God, I’m a freak magnet, ugh! lol
At least I wasn’t sexually harassed!
So far all I was able to come with is this:
Be more aware of who is around me
Don’t drink to much
Don’t talk to anyone
Don’t ever stand upfront. I stay all the way in the back now.
Don’t ever go anywhere alone
Don’t ever try to meet anyone famous again.
Move if someone is being creepy.
Get a bouncer to kick out anyone who bothers me immediately.