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Old Aug 24, 2023, 06:37 AM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
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Originally Posted by jesyka View Post
I just think it’s me keeping myself safe.
I’m not an expert, but it seems you have some deficit in your reasoning abilities. You take it to an all or nothing place, very child-like, saying since X happened and caused a bad experience, then you will never do X in any shape or form again.

That’s just not true. It wasn’t that you did the thing, it was more subtle factors that happened that one time when doing the thing.

I feel like I and others have exhausted ourselves trying to explain subtle, gray areas and you see only black and white.
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