I could use some advice on what to say to them. Ok All I got for now is this:.

I feel annoyed because I kept making numerous changes to accommodate everyones preferences for my birthday celebration.

I had to look for a new restaurant after two of my first choices weren’t OK. Then I had to change restaurants again because another one of you didn’t like the place that I chose. Then when all of you became available, everything was canceled because I said no to an earlier time change,

I try my best to accommodate everyone elses needs, but this is a little to much.

I’d appreciate it if you could work with me to make dome compromises like I do for all of you from now on.
I’d also appreciate more of a heads up when you need to cancel plans & not bail at the last minute.

I was tired that one time & I could’ve slept in instead had I known about things earlier. I was out by the time I received your texts.