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Originally Posted by ArtleyWilkins
You don’t seem to like these women that much.
The group generally meets for lunch. That’s their thing. Doesn’t seem unreasonable. You could make a list of three restaurants and whatever the majority prefers, go with that. Or, you could say I’d like to go to X restaurant and invite whoever wants to join you and just understand not everyone may come.
My feeling is that to basically scold them for being too picky and then expect them to happily join you to celebrate your birthday is probably a bit presumptuous. Doesn’t exactly set up a welcoming and friendly vibe.
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I’m not trying to scold them. I’m just a bit annoyed that I had to make so many accommodations for them for my birthday celebration. I feel that they should make a few compromises.
It’s not fair to me to how I always need to do whatever they want. My needs should matter too. They’re making everything about them.
I did ask them if this restaurant was ok or not & I had to change restaurants multiple times because they didn’t like the places I chose.