Perhaps she was rude but you responded with rudeness too and there’s no need for that. Many of your interactions end up in confrontation but it could be avoided

You keep saying you are shy and timid but shy and timid people don’t respond in aggression. You could respond by saying you aren’t comfortable with being touched and you appreciate her not to, but you understand about the pictures. Telling someone to get out your face and you’ll call bouncers is unnecessary confrontational and sure is t shy and timid behavior