@jesyka, I can understand how it may feel like judgment, but I don't see judgment or dismissal occurring. I don't think people are judging, dismissing, and not taking you seriously, and not because you were drinking. And, I think everyone is taking what you say seriously. A few people are simply reflecting their observations back to you. People are trying to help so that you can avoid having situations repeat themselves that become upsetting to you. Some people have made observations of your reactions on the thread and are trying to help.

I sense or feel like the issue has been resolved though? We hashed out what happened at the one club. You made certain decisions based on that experience on how you will approach similar clubs in the future. And next time, you are going with a friend.

How else can we support you in your thread? What else is needed here, or what else would you like to discuss and resolve, if anything?