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Old Aug 27, 2023, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Discombobulated View Post
I think I’m the case of the Japanese restaurant it’s a shame the lady didn’t give it a try, she might have liked it, and I say that as a person who is stuck in their ways myself.

That said, I wonder if this is really at its core about you realising you’re incompatible with these women?

How do you really feel about them other than this issue about venue and time? Do you feel happy in their company and have positive feelings about them?
Yeah, she shouldn’t have been so rigid. Unfortunately she is set in her ways. She doesn’t like change. She’d be content with going to the same places all the time. She likes her routines.

They’re OK aside from being rigid & unwilling to yry nee places & things.

They also always want to do everything in a grouo & not one on one. One thing that really bugs me too is that they are extremely pushy & disrespectful of my boundaries when it comes to literally begging me to be in group pics. I have said no to them a million times put they push & push.

I regret letting them get sway with harassing me into takimg grouo pics. I HATE having my oic tsken. I always look horrible in pics. I’m fat & I don’t know how to pose,

I don’t understand why they want me to ne in their stupid pics all the time. It’s excessive. They’d take pics of us everytime we meet if I didn’t say no. They usually try to harass me for pics each time. It’s not as nad as it used to ne. They’re like annoying teenagers that way, ugh.

I sm kind of incompatible with themx We do like some of the same things, but I’m to different from all of them to ever be good friends with any of them.

They’re all to rigid & unadventurous for me. And theyreway to obsessed with calories & fitness. I amways glfeel judged for being the only person in the group who orders a hearty dish or finishing everything on my plate m. They pick at their food & take home half of what they eat.

I’m sick of hearing them talk about calories m, fat, how they ate ‘to much’, how they shouldn’t eat dessert m, even on their birthday. Ugh! To much! Major buzzkill vibes!

Sadly, it’s extremely difficult for me to make friends, so I’m stuck. I tend to attract flakes & people who ate bery self absorbed.

I did meet dome nee people yesterday when a long time friend introduced me to some of her friends. I met her ex who is cool, a couple friend & an older lady at a picnic. We thrn went to sn art & eine festivsl then out to dinner. I’m seeing a movie eith her & her ex later. It’s movie discount day here for $4.

I asked her to make the introduction to her friends. She’s the nicest most normsl friend I’ve had in years. We’re not close though. So maybe that’s why she never introduced me to more than teo people before.

She did tell me that most of her friends are particular.
Thanks for this!
Discombobulated