By the way: As for #5 on the list, hubby freely admits he can't tell the difference between a strong expression of emotion vs. a psychological issue. One time I started crying during a therapy session, and hubby looked at the therapist like, "See? This is what happens. Doesn't she need some kind of intervention or something?" The (male) therapist had to assure him I was only expressing an emotion, not having a mental health crisis, and no, I don't need to be evaluated for possible hospitalization JUST because I'm crying. It happens all the time in his office, and it's perfectly normal. Hubby was genuinely surprised by this.