I am glad you both try to improve in every sense. I think sometimes men don’t understand crying as simply emotional reaction. Sometimes they think either something bad happened or we are mad or something. I am not a crier but there’ve been times when my husband assumed he did something wrong because I was teary eye while in reality I was watching tear-jerky movie or was emotional because my grandson made his first step. Wasn’t about him or anything bad. And my husband is emotional guy and very knowledgeable in that sense and still is clueless about tears