Well you want friends who’ll see you very often and it seems like most adult women have other obligations and cannot dedicate that much time to you. You also want the ones with no health concerns or financial or family obligations. So I am trying to figure out what type of women would fit your expectations. I thought younger and single. You don’t want those either. They just don’t seem to exist.

Don’t know where you find these women. Coincidentally majority of my friends are single. Widowed, divorced or never married. No they don’t ditch me for random men and not everyone is even dating. Yes I’ve met some ridiculous women who choose men every time. But they were a few. Not massive number.

It sounds like women you want just don’t exist.

Not single but also not in a good marriage because they might want to spend time with their husbands and not see you as often. No kids or at least no kids who require any of their time. Extremely flexible time wise- so either don’t work or work very little. Not frugal so must be either wealthy or financially irresponsible. Not young but also not old. Zero health concerns, so nothing prevents them from doing things you want. Adventurous but shouldn’t be young. Like to sleep late and go out late.

Who are these women? Just not a realistic expectation.