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Originally Posted by divine1966
I don’t think it’s fair to judge people for being broke or sick. It can’t really be a requirement in friends especially if you are about to lose your house and don’t work. And you have a long list of illnesses. Not fair to judge people that harshly especially if you yourself struggle with the same things. But other stuff I agree about. If you don’t want them as friends, it’s ok to end it
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I’m not trying to be mean or judgemental, but I actually have been friends with people who are broke &
and or sick & trust me, hearing about their health issues & money all the time is draining. I tried to bevsupportive, but it’s exhausting! And I dislike being asked for rides & not even offered gas money too. Broke people tend to be users.
I had it with the women who ONLY talked about their health issues In detail. They could’ve easily talked about other things, but they CHOSE to focus on THEMSELVES only.
Do you now understand why I can’t stand to be around sick people? They are all about me, me, me & so negative. I resent being used as a free therapist!
As for the broke ones, do you recall that loser mooch who used my friend & I? Disgusting! Other broke friends pressured me into buying their MLM cheap crap. No thanks! Other women were jealous of me who weren’t as well off.