There are many things people can do that don’t involve spending money-if they are true friends and value each other, but can’t afford things. Free events, free fairs and concerts in the summer, walk in the park, sit outside, visit each other etc

You seem to equate friendships with going out to eat or attend events that cost money. It’s all good but it’s not requirement for friendships. It’s more like a requirement for activity partners. Like specific “restaurant going group”. Your understanding of actual friendships is a bit different than most

Also something just doesn’t add up. You owe IRS money, have no savings for old age, can’t pay mortgage and could potentially end up homeless. Yet you are saying people are jealous of you because you are more well off. It makes no sense. Why would they be jealous? Just because you continue spending money you can’t afford to spend, doesn’t make you “less broke”.

As about sickness you said you are so very sick that you cannot work. So you are a very ill person. How can you judge people for being sick, it seems strange to me. Anyone can get sick at any time. Would you dump them as friends, even though you yourself very unwell?