Some of you might remember me talking about this group of female friends who’d constantly harass me for pictures.

I had other issues with them too. Anyways, they pushed me to far & upset me during MY birthday lunch. They would not take no for an answer regarding pics. They know that I hate having my pic taken.

So I reluctantly agreed after they kept begging & guilt tripping me again. I was pissed though.

So I texted the group & told them that I felt that my boundaries were being disrespected & that no means no. I told them that this has been a serious issue for years. I told them that from now on no amount of pleading will get me to agree to be in pictures anymore as no means no & they should respect that.

Only one lady apologized to me for being pushy. The other two ignored me. I became even more upset so I decided to finally end the so called friendship.

I have obviously not been happy with thrm for a long time. One lady kept fat shaming me with her weird up & down looks & they were just always trying to get me to accommodate them but they were usually unwilling to make compromises for me which wasn’t fair.

Everything had to be done their way all the time which I resented. Whatever the group wanted was what I had to go along with.

Anyways, I’m hurt that they didn’t care that they upset me. I was just being honest & not offensive with them. So why would they ignore me like that?

I would’ve given them another chance if they gave me a sincere apology to not upset me again. But no, they acted like I’m the problem.

Ugh! So immature & rude! Why did they ignore me & disrespect me like this?

I’m upset & hurt. I did the right thing though. I should’ve done this in person.

I feel like they were never really my real friends to begin with. I told them all how I felt about how they all hurt me as a group & individually. I told that lady that her fat shaming was rude & appalling too.

I’ll never allow anyone to disrespect me like this again. If they do, I’m going to stop talking to them immediately.