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Originally Posted by divine1966
I never said you should just sit home or don’t spend money. I am saying you really shouldn’t judge people who are broke or sick. And this is mental health forum yet you verbatim said you can’t stand sick people. Many on here have mental or physical illness. If you can’t stand sick people, this isn’t the right forum plus you can get sick any time. That’s mostly not in our control.
And this just isn’t fair. You said you are too sick to work yet don’t think people are allowed to be too sick to go out.
I never said you should accept everyone. In fact I encourage you to cut ties with people you actively dislike. I just don’t think you should judge people for financial and health problems. No you don’t need to be friends with people you dislike
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Sorry for the misunderstanding. What I meant is that I can’t stand sick people who are selfish. I gave clear examples of that. I’m empathetic & understanding l. I’m not against sick people.
A good friend of mine has an autoimmune disorder on top of having issues with depression & anxiety. And two new aquaintences of mine have health issues too. One has depression & anxiety issues too. The other one has a few different issues.
She’s using a cane now too. Another lady has a slight handicap with her hands. She also has a fear of heights too. So obviously I am fine with being friends with sick & disabled people l. Just not the whiny self centered ones.
Again, I only can’t stand the ones who only talk about their health issues. I seem to attract those types for some reason.
Most people I know are also broke too. I just don’t like the mooches or the cheap penny pincher types. Yesterday this new aquaintence who doesn’t have a lot of money treated me to lunch which was nice.
It was a fast food meal & she insisted on paying even though I said ithat I’ll pay for my own stuff. She kept insisting, so I let her pay for things. Perhaps my luck is changing. Hopefully it’ll change.
I don’t want to be used as a free therapist. Especially when those people never ask me how I’m doing. Everything is all about their illness. They don’t bothrr talking about anything light ever & it’s extremely annoying & selfish.