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Old Sep 01, 2023, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted by jesyka View Post
Actually, I prefer to confront people directly. I’m nit confontstional. I’m just direct & not afraid of being honest with people. I enjoy putting people in their place when they misbehave actually, lol 😆

I should’ve done that. I let things go to often. They probably thought they could get away with disrespecting me since I never had a serious talk with them about my boundaries m.

I stupidly gave in to their manipulation by grudgingly agreeing to be in their stupid pics sometimes against my will.

Even if I confronted them all in person, I’m positive thst they would’ve gaslit me, called me crazy, or denied any wrong doing at all.
I'm similar in that I prefer to be direct. I don't enjoy putting people in their place and have a hard time doing so because I've had poor boundaries in the past. It's something I am learning how to improve. I think we are around the same age. I am 52.

And I think you're correct in assuming they would have dodged the issue if you had said this in person.
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