Excellent, I know your thing is social anxiety so mine is. But you don’t lost anything by posting there.
Hope you get lots of insight. Thus, that the one you got from @TheGal, of course. Very insightful! There are people who post there with experience in relations and very insightful interventions.
I’m not very social in any aspect, even in sexual field so that’s why I couldn’t be of help. Only when I saw few posts by you so far, I wanted to guide you a little in the forum.

(((( HUGS ))))