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Originally Posted by divine1966
I don’t think these people were real and actual friends. Sounds more like activity group (or perhaps they are friends with each other but not with you). Real friends don’t act that way. You didn’t like them and they didn’t particularly like you. In general if you join social group that does things certain way, it’s not realistic to expect them to change. You tried to fit in. It didn’t work. It happens. I think it’s important to distinguish between activity partners and real friends.
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Thanks. Like usual, you’re right about everything you said. You’re very insightful & intelligent.
They were just activivity partners & not real friends. They were never interested in listening to my problems. The subject got changed after two minutes whenever I tried to talk about stuff which was telling.
It’s funny how this one lady could go on &
on about her terrible boss for hours all the time & the other lady in the group would always ask her about her boss. Ugh! So rude!
I introduced them all to each other. Two of the women in the group already knew each other though. And this is how they repay me? I should’ve never introduced them to each other.