Rose, this is why we must be our own best advocates. There is no substitute for reading as much about these related disorders as possible. When I was about 25 years old, I knew I had inherited anxiety and depression. I found those easy to recognize, bipolar not so easy to pin down. Especially bipolar 2 which is SO SO sneaky. I could easily remain undiagnosed as bipolar still today, now that I am in my 70's. At about 25, from my reading, I diagnosed myself, then had the diagnosis confirmed by a really excellent psychiatrist. Respectful of all the hard work the professionals put in, I am not at all surprised to read your post about how they are mostly guessing. Meanwhile we suffer on the wrong meds for decades. The worst thing for misdiagnosed bipolars is that antidepressants, used at all or incorrectly, can push us into hypomania or mania. I always got in more trouble with my highs because when I am down I keep to myself. To make things even more challenging, I often experience mixed states and can rapid cycle within the same day. Woo-hoo! But hang in there people! I obtained 3 degrees and co-parented a wonderful son who is very successful. I am keeping an eye on the grandson who is showing some of my symptoms. In Phoenix it is now extremely hard to even find a psychiatrist who takes my insurance. Nurse practitioners are taking over and if the MD psychiatrists are just guessing, phew. Since covid has ravaged the ranks of health professionals, it is all the more vital to research, research, research your own medical, dental, and pet conditions. Read, read, read!!!!! This forum is an invaluable source of info. Sincere thanks to DocJohn!!!!!