Because it’s third party information and isn’t coming directly from the source. Who knows what really happened. As far as I’m concerned it’s possibly heresy or he’s guilty. I’m not ignoring or dismissing anything. I’m going to proceed with caution and keep him strictly platonic I decided. No romance, no sex and no kissing. I’m not terribly attracted to him either. I just felt a kindred spirit sort of connection. And if this story is proven somehow to be true, then I will drop him. But for now I don’t want to judge based on third party information.