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Originally Posted by divine1966
You put too much emphasis on sex. There’s more to a relationship than that.
Date people longer before you decide to be intimate. Build the foundation and deep connections first then everything else will fall into place. I am married and I don’t remember much about first time. Plus first time is kind of awkward.
Focus on other aspects of your relationship. What do two of you like to do?
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We did decide we tot carried away. We did decide we would wait. It is just that I have this idea that she is extremely experienced and had an episode that was so overwhelming that I have a hard time believing she is not just settling for "not completely disastrous" (that would be me then).
Relationships do strand on sexual frustration ... the idea that I will not have enough to offer terrifies me, precisely because I feel such a dtrong bond with het.
We met dancing tango and are meeting tonight and tomorrow, probably on Thursday and as good as certain on Saturday, despite her having a 15 year old daughterand living 40km away from me (and I live very near to where all the dance things are going on)