A good show to watch about friendship is Big Bang theory. All of them have annoying quirks and at times bad judgement but they get over it and transform themselves and each other by being accepting of each other. Accept your friend Rory isn’t perfect and he didn’t have time for your long post at that time. It sounds as if he meant to go back and read it but you deleted it so he was explaining why he didn’t read it, you had deleted it before he had time to read it.