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Old Sep 05, 2023, 05:29 AM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
When we are hanging out, it feels like a romantic interest & more than just casual "friends" hanging out. I suppose I can ask him. I am not sure when or how to approach this though? Before his social gathering in Oct, I would think.
September just started. I’d not be waiting till October to know what’s happening. Approach like anything you want the answer for. Just tell him you’d like to know his level of interest and reasons behind lack of communication and infrequent meetings etc etc Obviously not confrontational

Personally if a man wanted to see me at a social event once a month and no communication in between, I’d have my answer. I might still keep him as activity partner/friend but not expect romance. But honestly if not sure, asking directly is a solution
Thanks for this!
Have Hope