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Location: Michigan
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Sep 05, 2023 at 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I don't know if it's that black and white. I will give more context and details.
He is a photographer and photographs bands. He's out 6 nights a week. He could invite any woman he wanted to. But he keeps inviting ME.
AND, he had invited me to go camping with him for 4-5 days early on. He also took a photo of us with his arm around me and posted it on Facebook along with other photos of the baseball game he took me to. His sister wrote a comment, saying "do you have anything to tell me, bro?".
He doesn't post any other photos of himself with any other women.
He invited me to his nephew's memorial service in early Oct. His nephew was recently murdered, and he was close with his nephew.
I think there's some level of interest, but maybe not relationship-level interest. It could be bad timing.
I am sure he's going through a lot right now, trying to support his sister who just lost her son, and planning for the service.
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Again, this is someone connected with the unsuitable group. This will be a rinse and repeat for you, where you are "helping" someone during a traumatic time, they are not available for you to get your needs met because they (and you) are so consumed with trying to meet their own needs.
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