I didn’t think he was from the same group?

I do agree about yet another unavailable man. It doesn’t matter what makes these men unavailable, but they all are one way or the other. Attraction to them is strong. I swear I spent a life time attracted to unavailable men. They don’t even have to be unsuitable. They could be upstanding citizens. Yet unavailable.

It’s hard to break the cycle. I don’t even think we can break attraction pattern but we could become more aware of red flags and bail before you are too deep into it and start suffering. Dude doesn’t call and doesn’t want to see me but occasionally invites me to public events. Is it enough for me? If yes, continue. If not, bye Felicia. Done. Move on