Have you given thought to what you want that new relationship to look like? What are your wants and needs?

There was Jay, who I can’t think about without thinking of the late, great Jimmy Buffet lol, because of how he told you he just wants to boat and island hop. He told you up front he didn’t want a commitment. You do want that, and that was basically the reason that relationship didn’t launch.

This one you mentioned now, photographs bands most every night. Are you going to be happy being in a committed relationship with someone who does that?

I’m in total support of you finding a new, healthy relationship. I’m just suggesting you focus on who you really are and what you really want.