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Originally Posted by emily1890
even if that person is only a friend.
to me, when they talk to me and don't call me love, it makes me feel that they are sick of me and want nothing more to do with me- and when I get emails from people, I always check to make sure it says hi love at the top (and recently I've been checking for kisses at the bottom of messages, too!)
is anyone else like this?, like you need to be called love or something to make your friendship feel like it means something
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Emily, is this a custom among your friends?
The word love from what I hear is a term whose usage is largely spread between an assistant and a customer . Addressed by the former to the latter.
Here, in Spain is the same. My hairdresser call her customers “darling” but it has no other meaning than being polite or friendly.
If someone called me by text, or in person, even a friend, love, I would be shocked.
There must be a reason why you feel uncomfortable if this not happen. Which people this issue happen to you with? Unknown, friends, acquaintances?